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**Day 1: The Heart of Biblical Leadership**
*Scripture: Ephesians 5:25-27 (NKJV)*  
"Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word, that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish."

**Devotional Thought:**  
In the heart of biblical leadership lies a profound call to love sacrificially. Christ’s love for the church is the ultimate model for how we should love one another in marriage. This love is not self-seeking but is focused on the spiritual growth and sanctification of the other. As spouses, we are called to create an environment where each other’s faith can flourish. This means prioritizing spiritual growth, encouraging one another in the Word, and being committed to each other’s holiness. Reflect on how you can embody this sacrificial love in your daily interactions, ensuring that your marriage reflects the purity and devotion Christ has for His church.

**Prayer:**  
Heavenly Father, thank You for the perfect example of love and leadership You have given us in Christ. Help us to love each other with the same sacrificial love, prioritizing each other’s spiritual growth and holiness. May our marriage be a reflection of Your love for the church, pure and without blemish. Guide us in creating a nurturing environment where our faith can grow. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

**Questions to Ask Your Spouse:**
- How can we better reflect Christ’s sacrificial love in our marriage?
- In what ways can we support each other’s spiritual growth this week?

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**Day 2: Servant Leadership and Stability**
*Scripture: Matthew 20:27-28 (NKJV)*  
"And whoever desires to be first among you, let him be your slave—just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life a ransom for many."

*James 3:17 (NKJV)*  
"But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, willing to yield, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality and without hypocrisy."

**Devotional Thought:**  
Servant leadership is at the core of a stable and loving marriage. Jesus exemplified this by serving others and putting their needs above His own. In marriage, this means being willing to serve your spouse selflessly, creating a home filled with peace and stability. True leadership is not about asserting control but about being a calming presence, especially during life’s storms. Reflect on how you can be a source of peace and stability in your marriage, embodying the wisdom that is pure, peaceable, and gentle. Consider how your actions can bring about a sense of security and comfort for your spouse.

**Prayer:**  
Lord Jesus, thank You for showing us the true meaning of servant leadership. Help us to serve each other with humility and love, creating a home that is stable and filled with peace. May our actions reflect Your wisdom, which is pure and gentle. Teach us to be anchors in the storms of life, bringing comfort and security to our marriage. In Your name, Amen.

**Questions to Ask Your Spouse:**
- How can we serve each other better in our daily lives?
- Are there areas in our home where we need to work on bringing more peace and stability?

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**Day 3: Inviting Counsel and Engaging in Dialogue**
*Scripture: Proverbs 15:22 (NKJV)*  
"Without counsel, plans go awry, but in the multitude of counselors they are established."

*Proverbs 18:15 (NKJV)*  
"The heart of the prudent acquires knowledge, and the ear of the wise seeks knowledge."

**Devotional Thought:**  
Open communication and mutual respect are vital for a thriving marriage. Inviting each other’s counsel and engaging in meaningful dialogue strengthens the bond between spouses. It’s important to create a safe space where both partners feel heard and valued. This involves actively seeking each other’s input and being willing to listen and learn. Reflect on how you can improve communication in your marriage, ensuring that both voices are heard and respected. Consider how inviting your spouse’s counsel can lead to better decision-making and a stronger partnership.

**Prayer:**  
Gracious God, thank You for the gift of communication and the wisdom that comes from seeking counsel. Help us to engage in open and honest dialogue, valuing each other’s input and perspectives. May our conversations be filled with understanding and respect, strengthening our bond and guiding us in making wise decisions. Teach us to listen with open hearts and to speak with love and grace. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

**Questions to Ask Your Spouse:**
- How can we ensure that both of our voices are heard and valued in decision-making?
- What are some questions we can regularly ask each other to foster open dialogue?